"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Happy New Year My Friends

Lion

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First of all hope all of you made the best of your situation wherever you were or who you were with...

I recently came out of an LTR, long-story we got back together for a couple of months, some tough sh*t has happend to my ex with her family and she decided to cool 'us' off.

Anyway, what I came here to post is that I had an amazing time last night.
I decided to spend NYE with my old friend. He was out with a group of his friends. We had some drinks at a bar and the atmosphere was really cool. One of his friends was smokin' hot, and I mean the type I am attracted to on a caveman-animalistic level if you'll understand.

I took an interest in what she had to say, she's a driven girl working in the city, seems real independent. We had fun, I escalated the kino. She went on facebook and tried to find me, but for some reason my profile was hidden, no idea why but anyway she got her business card out and handed it to me.

After going to a few clubs in seperate groups we all head back to a friend's house for more drink.

This is where we ended up sitting together and escalating the kino.

My buddy knows this girl and knows my ex I've just come out of an LTR with so I try to be discrete about the kino as they are all in the room but she makes no mistake about it.

When I finally get her to myself I go in for the kiss and she mirrors the animal inside me, I start playfully holding her down (sounds funny but I think you'll understand)

SUDDENLY our mutual friends come back in the room and we quickly resume our previous posture.
Slowly she starts testing me, asking me to hand her MY drink and making girly moaning noises because I don't supplicate, I just look at her like "are you kidding me!" She then starts making subtle kino at my buddy but he doesn't respond.

After that it was difficult to isolate her as only my friend was left in the room and it was his sister's place and he was staying the night.
I hugged and kissed her and walked home. No idea if she f*cked my friend but boy I had an exciting night.

SO When and what should I do next?


I've her number and facebook, not initiated any contact yet. Was going to call her maybe beginning of next week and setup a meeting.
I think she just wants a FB to play with - I've mainly been in LTRs before. Now don't get me wrong I'm not relying on this girl but she has the look I'm magnatised to.

Today I setup a coffee date with another girl. That's tomorrow.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lion said:
She then starts making subtle kino at my buddy but he doesn't respond.


No idea if she f*cked my friend but boy I had an exciting night.

Theres some red flags there.


Give it a few days before you contact her and stop building her up. The more you build her up in your mind the more oneitis you'll get for her. Contact her via facebook or maybe see if she'll be going out with some friends again and meet her that way.
 

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Haha thanks for your input slaog, it's a good start to improving myself
 
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