"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Happy New Year My Friends

Lion

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First of all hope all of you made the best of your situation wherever you were or who you were with...

I recently came out of an LTR, long-story we got back together for a couple of months, some tough sh*t has happend to my ex with her family and she decided to cool 'us' off.

Anyway, what I came here to post is that I had an amazing time last night.
I decided to spend NYE with my old friend. He was out with a group of his friends. We had some drinks at a bar and the atmosphere was really cool. One of his friends was smokin' hot, and I mean the type I am attracted to on a caveman-animalistic level if you'll understand.

I took an interest in what she had to say, she's a driven girl working in the city, seems real independent. We had fun, I escalated the kino. She went on facebook and tried to find me, but for some reason my profile was hidden, no idea why but anyway she got her business card out and handed it to me.

After going to a few clubs in seperate groups we all head back to a friend's house for more drink.

This is where we ended up sitting together and escalating the kino.

My buddy knows this girl and knows my ex I've just come out of an LTR with so I try to be discrete about the kino as they are all in the room but she makes no mistake about it.

When I finally get her to myself I go in for the kiss and she mirrors the animal inside me, I start playfully holding her down (sounds funny but I think you'll understand)

SUDDENLY our mutual friends come back in the room and we quickly resume our previous posture.
Slowly she starts testing me, asking me to hand her MY drink and making girly moaning noises because I don't supplicate, I just look at her like "are you kidding me!" She then starts making subtle kino at my buddy but he doesn't respond.

After that it was difficult to isolate her as only my friend was left in the room and it was his sister's place and he was staying the night.
I hugged and kissed her and walked home. No idea if she f*cked my friend but boy I had an exciting night.

SO When and what should I do next?


I've her number and facebook, not initiated any contact yet. Was going to call her maybe beginning of next week and setup a meeting.
I think she just wants a FB to play with - I've mainly been in LTRs before. Now don't get me wrong I'm not relying on this girl but she has the look I'm magnatised to.

Today I setup a coffee date with another girl. That's tomorrow.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Lion said:
She then starts making subtle kino at my buddy but he doesn't respond.


No idea if she f*cked my friend but boy I had an exciting night.

Theres some red flags there.


Give it a few days before you contact her and stop building her up. The more you build her up in your mind the more oneitis you'll get for her. Contact her via facebook or maybe see if she'll be going out with some friends again and meet her that way.
 

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Haha thanks for your input slaog, it's a good start to improving myself
 
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