"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Happy New 2017 Year, the year of the Eagle!

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Happy new year guys. I wish you all the best in this new 2017 year. That all your wishes and plans come true. That you finally meet that one girl and stick with her. All the best guys! Happy new year!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FACTTOID: Rooster and C0ck in Russian is one word, sound like C0ck. You don't want to be called a C0ck, because it is someone who has been raped in prison, or is a practicing submissive homosexual. Thus, when asked who are you by Chinese horoscope, you reply I am an Eagle!
 
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