backseatjuan
Banned
Happy new year guys. I wish you all the best in this new 2017 year. That all your wishes and plans come true. That you finally meet that one girl and stick with her. All the best guys! Happy new year!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Happy New 2017 Year, the year of the Eagle!
- Thread starter backseatjuan
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
backseatjuan
Banned
FACTTOID: Rooster and C0ck in Russian is one word, sound like C0ck. You don't want to be called a C0ck, because it is someone who has been raped in prison, or is a practicing submissive homosexual. Thus, when asked who are you by Chinese horoscope, you reply I am an Eagle!