backseatjuan
Banned
Happy new year guys. I wish you all the best in this new 2017 year. That all your wishes and plans come true. That you finally meet that one girl and stick with her. All the best guys! Happy new year!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Happy New 2017 Year, the year of the Eagle!
- Thread starter backseatjuan
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
backseatjuan
Banned
FACTTOID: Rooster and C0ck in Russian is one word, sound like C0ck. You don't want to be called a C0ck, because it is someone who has been raped in prison, or is a practicing submissive homosexual. Thus, when asked who are you by Chinese horoscope, you reply I am an Eagle!