Ken785
Master Don Juan
Today is my 26th birthday! Dont have any major plans but i'll be enthusiastic about it anyway...Happy Birthday to me b1tches!! 
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Never mind the kids on this site...they still have lots of growing to do.Armored said:You're a loser. Shut up and go away.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Not saying that i haven't grown neither. But congratulations on using your time to do all this research just to make me look bad...you must have a lot of time on your hands kid. Seems to me im that important in your life that you would go out of your way to do so. I appreciate it. Congratufvckinlations fvcker...Armored said:Kids? Growing? Dude please don't bring me to your level.
If I recall you dropped out of (community) college.
You know what I'm not gonna go through all the bullsh1t you've been spouting here.
But for all those who want a good laugh, ways NOT to be and evidence of my earlier post - start here.
You've demonstrated how pathetic you really are man. I don't have any real contempt for you - more like pity.
Lawl. Don't flatter yourself man, two button clicks is hardly "time."Ken785 said:Not saying that i haven't grown neither. But congratulations on using your time to do all this research just to make me look bad...you must have a lot of time on your hands kid. Seems to me im that important in your life that you would go out of your way to do so. I appreciate it. Congratufvckinlations fvcker...
Good for you man. What are you in the 2nd grade? This will be my last post I write in this thread. Thanks to everyone that wished me a happy birthday.Armored said:Lawl. Don't flatter yourself man, two button clicks is hardly "time."
You're a source of entertainment and an example of how not to be. Simple. I'm curious, how have you "grown" - besides age.
And I'm doing this from my phone. At work.
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I love how try to talk down to some one better in every conceivable way, its quite comical.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.