"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hanging up on her

Alpheta

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Hey.

Ive been in a relationship for a while now.

I just wanted to ask and share a few experiences lately. Ive been on facetime with the girl whenever ive been horny and weve been sexting or whatever you call it. Normally when im done, id be on the phone for an hour then get sleep.However, recently, after sex sessions and phone sex, ive left her very abruptly. And EVERYTIME the girl has acted very very out of charecter. Shes all over my ****. Going crazy at times. This isnt only when after being intimate, but also after causal phonecalls. I cut the call short and im gone. Its like hanging up activates something in her head.

You guys ever get this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Rainman4707

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Women like to talk A LOT. I remember reading that a women uses something like 3000 words a day, whilst a guy only uses about 300.
She needs to use up those words...so if she's been busy all day with no one to talk to, she'll talk, talk & talk more when an opportunity arises.
 
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