"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This chick wants to hang out and get to know me as "friends" first, then she says she'll decide whether or not we will be intimate.

How should I act when we hang out? Should I act like its a normal date anyways or just keep it friendly with some light kino and what not?

Any help would be appreciated.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Forget her. She thinks she owns you and is trying to control you right from the start. You gotta take control. Say, "no how about, we go on a date and if I don't like you enough to be intimate, we can be friends."

To me, it seems like she's feeling like she's better than you or you're not good enough for her stuck up @ss.
 
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I wouldnt do it man. This sounds like a fast trap into the friends zone. If she was really interested in you, she wouldnt want to hang out with you "just as friends" first. It seems like she is trying to take control by her deciding what you two will be. Don't go out with her as friends.
 
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Um no, so you asked her out and she said lets be friends and see how it goes from there. Eitehr get her to give a flat out rejection by strongly coming on to her or stear clear.
 
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No, its not really all like that.

I didn't really ask her out or anything. I have been kinda talkin to her and stuff just getting to know her, I never asked her out personally. Then, she told one of my friends she wants to get to know me better and hang out as friends first and see where it goes.

hope that clears it up a lil better, but I am still thinking the same thing you guys are anyways.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
Forget her. She thinks she owns you and is trying to control you right from the start. You gotta take control. Say, "no how about, we go on a date and if I don't like you enough to be intimate, we can be friends."

To me, it seems like she's feeling like she's better than you or you're not good enough for her stuck up @ss.
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i havent read any responces and i only the read the first line of that reply and i agree.


**** HER MAN UR THE ****NIG PRIZE WHAT THE **** IS WRONG WID U PPL

u fukn control her
not the other way around
 
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