Hanging out and dating Thai ladies

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

arealdating

New Member

Jun 4, 2018

This coming weekend, my best friends and I are meeting up with a couple of Thai ladies for a getaway trip. We have met some of these girls months ago when we visited Phuket and ever since then, I have been in constant communication with one of these girls. It looks like her and I are getting along really well. My friends and the other girls have also been flirting back and forth with one another. However, my concern is getting into a serious long distance relationship. Is it worth the risk? I live far from Thailand and have only been visiting this country this year for summer trips so I’m really torn.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.