"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hanging and becoming one of the cool guys? HELP!

Rint

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We all know them the cool guys the jocks at the school. I wanna be one of them. I think that hanging out with DJs will help me become a DJ. I've seen amazing DJs at my school , and i actually know and talk to them sometimes, but they seem on a completely diffrent level. So what i'm asking here is how can i become good friends with them even though my social skills are half as good as theirs? Thanks!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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samaka

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Rint said:
We all know them the cool guys the jocks at the school. I wanna be one of them.
This is the wrong attitude. There's a problem if you think other people are cool and want to emulate them.
 
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