"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hanging and becoming one of the cool guys? HELP!

Rint

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We all know them the cool guys the jocks at the school. I wanna be one of them. I think that hanging out with DJs will help me become a DJ. I've seen amazing DJs at my school , and i actually know and talk to them sometimes, but they seem on a completely diffrent level. So what i'm asking here is how can i become good friends with them even though my social skills are half as good as theirs? Thanks!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rint said:
We all know them the cool guys the jocks at the school. I wanna be one of them.
This is the wrong attitude. There's a problem if you think other people are cool and want to emulate them.
 
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