Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hangin with a girl you dont want to sleep with but have slept with

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Chromeo

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Hanging out with some friends the other night, this girl was there who I banged one night wasted just for the hell of it.

Were hangin out and I can tell she wants me to pursue her again, but I just really dont care, not interested in bangin that night, wanted to sleep. So I didnt really want to be mr. entertainment that night, was being a quiet loner really.

I could tell she was a little disapointed when she left.

So my question is, you guys think its better to just always be mr. excitement and if a girl comes on to you turn her down.

Or turn her down by blatantly not acting interested (although another night I might be)

Honestly dont even give a fvck, so dont know why im still writing this, cuz im just gonna do what I do, gonna be selfish for a while, some nights I aint feelin it, sorry. Dont really need an answer but Feel free to comment
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Treat her like you'd treat any other girl you werent attracted to. Actually, since you've fvcked, you've bonded, and it should be easy for you to just be friends. It always has in my case. SOmetimes it will be awkward for a month or two max, but after that, everythings fine.
 
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Treat her like you'd treat any other girl you werent attracted to. Actually, since you've fvcked, you've bonded, and it should be easy for you to just be friends. It always has in my case. SOmetimes it will be awkward for a month or two max, but after that, everythings fine.
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Exacttllllllllllllllllllyyy...if you want to fck her and you're feeling horny then i'm sure you could again if you wanted to.. But if you don't even want a connection and just want to be friends then yea it may be awkward for awhile but it'll pass off within time
 
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I get this when I'm tired or hungover, if girls make a blatent effort it just irritates me further.

If I'm out and I think I'd be interested another time, I just apologise for not being as interesting as usual and tell them I'll take their number, is it me or do they seem more interested when its obvious (at least to you) that your really not feeling it?

But I guess its okay to be friends with a couple of girls... just dont trust them or anything. I've even heard rumours from a reliable source that friendzone girls grow beards and have cooties. Dont want cooties do ya?
 
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