"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hanging out with some friends the other night, this girl was there who I banged one night wasted just for the hell of it.

Were hangin out and I can tell she wants me to pursue her again, but I just really dont care, not interested in bangin that night, wanted to sleep. So I didnt really want to be mr. entertainment that night, was being a quiet loner really.

I could tell she was a little disapointed when she left.

So my question is, you guys think its better to just always be mr. excitement and if a girl comes on to you turn her down.

Or turn her down by blatantly not acting interested (although another night I might be)

Honestly dont even give a fvck, so dont know why im still writing this, cuz im just gonna do what I do, gonna be selfish for a while, some nights I aint feelin it, sorry. Dont really need an answer but Feel free to comment
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Treat her like you'd treat any other girl you werent attracted to. Actually, since you've fvcked, you've bonded, and it should be easy for you to just be friends. It always has in my case. SOmetimes it will be awkward for a month or two max, but after that, everythings fine.
 
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Treat her like you'd treat any other girl you werent attracted to. Actually, since you've fvcked, you've bonded, and it should be easy for you to just be friends. It always has in my case. SOmetimes it will be awkward for a month or two max, but after that, everythings fine.
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Exacttllllllllllllllllllyyy...if you want to fck her and you're feeling horny then i'm sure you could again if you wanted to.. But if you don't even want a connection and just want to be friends then yea it may be awkward for awhile but it'll pass off within time
 
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I get this when I'm tired or hungover, if girls make a blatent effort it just irritates me further.

If I'm out and I think I'd be interested another time, I just apologise for not being as interesting as usual and tell them I'll take their number, is it me or do they seem more interested when its obvious (at least to you) that your really not feeling it?

But I guess its okay to be friends with a couple of girls... just dont trust them or anything. I've even heard rumours from a reliable source that friendzone girls grow beards and have cooties. Dont want cooties do ya?
 
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