I-tallionStallion
Master Don Juan
I like what i see Handy
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What the hell kinda pills are you taking.. lol. Most pills have 1000mg of fish oil, which is 1g of fat. I sincerely doubt you have pills that are 10g fat, that's closing in on a tablespoon of oil, you'd have to have a HUGE pill for that.HandyAndy said:I noticed each fish oil pill has 10g of fat.
Oh damn lol, my fault I was reading the calories instead, because Im used to most labels having fat first on the listWarboss Alex said:What the hell kinda pills are you taking.. lol. Most pills have 1000mg of fish oil, which is 1g of fat. I sincerely doubt you have pills that are 10g fat, that's closing in on a tablespoon of oil, you'd have to have a HUGE pill for that.
That said, you live in California, maybe Arnie has put the local EFA's on a hypertrophy program.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.