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Master Don Juan
I like what i see Handy
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What the hell kinda pills are you taking.. lol. Most pills have 1000mg of fish oil, which is 1g of fat. I sincerely doubt you have pills that are 10g fat, that's closing in on a tablespoon of oil, you'd have to have a HUGE pill for that.HandyAndy said:I noticed each fish oil pill has 10g of fat.
Oh damn lol, my fault I was reading the calories instead, because Im used to most labels having fat first on the listWarboss Alex said:What the hell kinda pills are you taking.. lol. Most pills have 1000mg of fish oil, which is 1g of fat. I sincerely doubt you have pills that are 10g fat, that's closing in on a tablespoon of oil, you'd have to have a HUGE pill for that.
That said, you live in California, maybe Arnie has put the local EFA's on a hypertrophy program.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.