"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Handsome or strong and dominant , which score better

biggoal

Banned
Joined
Jul 19, 2019
Messages
3,638
Reaction score
780
Age
42
You really think few actors keep up their appearance? I would say members of the acting profession in general are a lot better looking than a sample size of the regular population. And probably most of the obese actors/actresses are in comedy.
Also makeup and lightning too and air brushing. Most dont look at good in person without the makeup.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,755
Reaction score
9,953
Also makeup and lightning too and air brushing. Most dont look at good in person without the makeup.
People can't change their faces too much, even taking into account that it's Hollywood and Botox and plastic surgery is everywhere. So I was thinking more of people taking care of their physiques, and most of them at least stay slim.

I shouldn't have said "it's surprising how few of them do." I should've said, "it's surprising how many of them don't."
Fair enough. I was thinking for everyone you could name that let themselves go (and a lot of those were older or had drug problems), you could name another one who has kept fit, especially the younger crowd. I think it's kind of funny to see movies today compared with movies when I was growing up. Now days, a lot of the time the extras and walk ons just passing through are all chiseled and sh!t. I guess that shows they have aspirations, so good for them, or maybe they're just into fitness. Despite the obesity epidemic, a lot more guys are lifting today than when I was growing up. It's like there's no in between now. You're either a slob or an aspiring adonis.
 
Top