I just watch the Tim Flawless Natural method and im just using some of his openers. I notice that when he does these openers he shakes the girls hand and i wanted to know if its okay to do that in high school because in my school boys don't usually shake their hand. I know im making this a big deal but i just dont want the girl to get weirded out. Whats your intake on this ??
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
handshakes ok for high school???
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You in high school, you shouldn't be watching Tim's Flawless Natural!
Well ok ok I've seen it, and Transformations, and The Blueprint... But do as I say not as I do, right.
Your falling into the trap of overanalysing. Really people shouldn't be asking questions about stuff like this. But ok if you know what your doing and you STILL legitimately want to know, thats ok.
It's fine. Try it. Use your own experiance to find out. Everyone reccomends high fives and girls can even get weirded out by that, at least at first untill they see that you are cool with it. It wont weird the girl out unless you feel weird doing it. Handshakes are a great way to get kino in early, for girls it's more like a hand hold then an actual shake.
Crazy handshakes that you make up are fun and a good tool as well.
Well ok ok I've seen it, and Transformations, and The Blueprint... But do as I say not as I do, right.
Your falling into the trap of overanalysing. Really people shouldn't be asking questions about stuff like this. But ok if you know what your doing and you STILL legitimately want to know, thats ok.
It's fine. Try it. Use your own experiance to find out. Everyone reccomends high fives and girls can even get weirded out by that, at least at first untill they see that you are cool with it. It wont weird the girl out unless you feel weird doing it. Handshakes are a great way to get kino in early, for girls it's more like a hand hold then an actual shake.
Crazy handshakes that you make up are fun and a good tool as well.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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yea make up a handshake with her but don't like do it in the halls use hugs instead.
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I usually only do handshakes with a girl when I first meet them, the normal kind. Only other time I use them is when I want to track my progress on how I'm doing with a specific woman with a high five.
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i learnt in a business networking class that only in a business context is handshaking (between a guy and a gal) is essential..
in the social context, the guy nv offers. only the gal does.
u dun wanna freak the gal out with a handshake esp if she's nt comfy with u or don't know u.
wonder what is the take of others here.
in the social context, the guy nv offers. only the gal does.
u dun wanna freak the gal out with a handshake esp if she's nt comfy with u or don't know u.
wonder what is the take of others here.