"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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handshakes ok for high school???

Jamal

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I just watch the Tim Flawless Natural method and im just using some of his openers. I notice that when he does these openers he shakes the girls hand and i wanted to know if its okay to do that in high school because in my school boys don't usually shake their hand. I know im making this a big deal but i just dont want the girl to get weirded out. Whats your intake on this ??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Love

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Yes just do it

Unless she's clearly an uncivilized hoodrat then give her one of those 4-step gangsta handshakes
 

Cashew

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A handshake is good in highschool... especially since it's so uncommon there. It will help make you stick out in her mind.
 

SinJester

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You in high school, you shouldn't be watching Tim's Flawless Natural!

Well ok ok I've seen it, and Transformations, and The Blueprint... But do as I say not as I do, right. :p

Your falling into the trap of overanalysing. Really people shouldn't be asking questions about stuff like this. But ok if you know what your doing and you STILL legitimately want to know, thats ok.

It's fine. Try it. Use your own experiance to find out. Everyone reccomends high fives and girls can even get weirded out by that, at least at first untill they see that you are cool with it. It wont weird the girl out unless you feel weird doing it. Handshakes are a great way to get kino in early, for girls it's more like a hand hold then an actual shake.

Crazy handshakes that you make up are fun and a good tool as well.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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moneybanks24

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yea make up a handshake with her but don't like do it in the halls use hugs instead.
 

War Against Betaism

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I usually only do handshakes with a girl when I first meet them, the normal kind. Only other time I use them is when I want to track my progress on how I'm doing with a specific woman with a high five.
 

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i learnt in a business networking class that only in a business context is handshaking (between a guy and a gal) is essential..
in the social context, the guy nv offers. only the gal does.

u dun wanna freak the gal out with a handshake esp if she's nt comfy with u or don't know u.

wonder what is the take of others here.
 
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