Heretolearn
Master Don Juan
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Hey,
Please post all your suggestions/ideas.
Some will be useful for New Years, whilst the Xmas can be handy for next year.
Single, 29 and working in small mining town. Anytime can be great single of course but I feel obligated to spend time with my family at Xmas. What hell. All the others have wives or kids or both. I may as well be a leper despite being ridiculously successful relative to everyone else there except my cool Uncle.
My achievements/life is lost in the midst of conversations centred around who is getting married next and who is having another child. So I stay silent then am lambasted for being quiet.
Gah, anyway to actually enjoy it. Or anyone else experience something similar? I love my family. They are great but I feel like they have not kept in tune with how I have developed and changed ESPECIALLY my mentality towards women/marriage etc.
using such guilt trips like, you wouldnt understand, you dont have a gf or kids. Even my cool Uncle sided with the women and his wife has put up a sign saying the woman is always right blah blah. I am so dissapointed. How does that happen. My uncle was the coolest when I was younger. He would take me to McDonalds and the mall and start conversations with girls for me ha ha (smooth not seedy way. He was just cool)
Please post all your suggestions/ideas.
Some will be useful for New Years, whilst the Xmas can be handy for next year.
Single, 29 and working in small mining town. Anytime can be great single of course but I feel obligated to spend time with my family at Xmas. What hell. All the others have wives or kids or both. I may as well be a leper despite being ridiculously successful relative to everyone else there except my cool Uncle.
My achievements/life is lost in the midst of conversations centred around who is getting married next and who is having another child. So I stay silent then am lambasted for being quiet.
Gah, anyway to actually enjoy it. Or anyone else experience something similar? I love my family. They are great but I feel like they have not kept in tune with how I have developed and changed ESPECIALLY my mentality towards women/marriage etc.
using such guilt trips like, you wouldnt understand, you dont have a gf or kids. Even my cool Uncle sided with the women and his wife has put up a sign saying the woman is always right blah blah. I am so dissapointed. How does that happen. My uncle was the coolest when I was younger. He would take me to McDonalds and the mall and start conversations with girls for me ha ha (smooth not seedy way. He was just cool)