Handling Push Pull

[attic]

I saw an old flame the other night and since that time i've been getting slightly out of frame with managing her severe push pull behavior. During our date we had a good time with lots of sexual tension building that ended in a proper BJ before I dropped her off.

Since that time she has been texting a lot and instigating a desire to sleep together. I've deleted the txts because I don't want to see her BS every time I check my txt messages.

The gist is she will say very direct things like "I want you in me". If I ignore, she txts more, if I respond to lock it in, she runs her BS..."oh I don't know" "we will see" "ma". She knows i'm in a relationship with another girl.

I like the challenge, I like playing back and forth, but i'm wondering how much do I pull back now, or do I just go completely silent? Her and I have a two year history.

I want to completely drop her at this point until she sets a date and time.

Last night she texted that she wants me in her. I responded with a bit of dirty talk and said let's do it. She said pulled away. I haven't responded.

My ego wants to point out her BS to her in a playful manner, but I want to just ignore till she cracks and now i'm pissed at her.

2 other plates, one with high IL.

 

[Urbanyst]

She is a troll. Don't feed the trolls.

She is full of sh*t like all women. Actions are all that matter and you ain't getting any action so stop wasting your time and making yourself look stupid playing her dumb games.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Dump women who continue playing games.
It would only lead to a stalemate and resentment.

 

[stovepipe]

How do you handle it? After being crushed by a women who did that, you simply don't play, you walk away!