Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
The only problem I see with that is it doesn't sound like their visions are congruent, unless I'm missing something. Maybe I'm misreading what he wants, which he said was to leave things as they were.
What's there not to understand? He's basically stringing her along. He doesn't deem her relationship-worthy, but doesn't want to flat out say it because he wants to keep her as a plate as long as possible.
It sounded to me like she's saying (in a female way) "Here's what I want, do you want the same thing?" If yes, great. If no, I'm moving on. If OP strings her along just for s*x, that's his choice, but he's also missing out on other women more consistent with his goals if he wants something more stable.