There seems to be a lot of things covering how one should go about complimenting women, but how would a DJ receive a compliment given to them? I've only got one standard line and thats when a girl says something to the effect of "You're really cute/ i like what you're wearing etc..." I'll generally come back with "Yea, i get that a lot". More often than not it gets a little laugh... but how would a master handle compliments?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Handling Compliments?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
) with a little ****y smileRespond by rewarding them for being nice to you, "thank you, you're really sweet/ you have a great taste in fashion" but dont tell them "yeah I like what you're wearing too". No. You have to make her feel good for complimenting you, so you must reward that.
Something that Mystery advices is to respond with "You're attracted to me", but I use that when I receive a criticism instead, works just as well.
Something that Mystery advices is to respond with "You're attracted to me", but I use that when I receive a criticism instead, works just as well.
Naughtyboy
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Say 'Thank You' and smile. Nothing more
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Heart Break Kid
Master Don Juan
I tell them they're sweet and then I kino.
AGREEDNaughtyboy said:
Please, if they are sincere and meaningfull don't ****y/funny them. If you are both in a fun and playfull mood then it's ok. However don't make fun of her when she is serious. If you aren't joking and having fun when you say 'I get that a lot' you are just going to look like a d!ck.
A secure man knows how to take a complement. All it takes is a thank you.