"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Handling Compliments?

rain63

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There seems to be a lot of things covering how one should go about complimenting women, but how would a DJ receive a compliment given to them? I've only got one standard line and thats when a girl says something to the effect of "You're really cute/ i like what you're wearing etc..." I'll generally come back with "Yea, i get that a lot". More often than not it gets a little laugh... but how would a master handle compliments?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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HandyAndy

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"Thanks, but your still not getting in my pants" make sure to smile
Or say "I know...:)) with a little ****y smile

Be different!
 

r0cky

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Respond by rewarding them for being nice to you, "thank you, you're really sweet/ you have a great taste in fashion" but dont tell them "yeah I like what you're wearing too". No. You have to make her feel good for complimenting you, so you must reward that.
Something that Mystery advices is to respond with "You're attracted to me", but I use that when I receive a criticism instead, works just as well.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

SinJester

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Naughtyboy said:
Say 'Thank You' and smile. Nothing more
AGREED

Please, if they are sincere and meaningfull don't ****y/funny them. If you are both in a fun and playfull mood then it's ok. However don't make fun of her when she is serious. If you aren't joking and having fun when you say 'I get that a lot' you are just going to look like a d!ck.

A secure man knows how to take a complement. All it takes is a thank you.
 
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