"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Handling ****blocks

PapiChulo

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I am talking about my college buddies (not friends) who try to ****block each other like immature boys when they see a woman. They have no game and don't know what they are doing, they learn from me though (fuk em so much)

I know what I am doing with this type of chicks and score rather higher than those d!ckheads on everything: looks, money, personality,age,experience, etc.

Should I stay laid back and just let them embarrass themselves, or jump in there and defeat every ****block like Jakie Chan, or maybe even ****block myself? (at times I feel physically aggressive which is never a good thing)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gray The Prince

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Yeah, I've been having questions about this one too. There's these 2 knuckleheads that do that and there's this one other girl Ive been having my eye on that's surrounded by guy friends all the time who ****block all challengers and each other.
 

PapiChulo

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Ever had a desire to b!tch-slap one of them with your pimp hand?
 

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Should I stay laid back and just let them embarrass themselves, or jump in there and defeat every ****block like Jakie Chan, or maybe even ****block myself?
Just laid back and enjoy the show. Checkout the ladies, do what you have to do, because no one will do it for you. Now, the beauty behind not doing anything to stop the c0ckblock, is that the girls who wanted to check out your buddies will have a little something for you because you don't child play in the sandbox.

Now if it's going too far (as far as the c0ckblock is concerned) call your buddies on their sh1t, stand your ground and don't apologize. Not your fault if they don't wanna play the game correctly.

Play on !
 

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I think you are making a great point there, and besides that I dont have to prove anything to them and the women. I also I assume it shows too much interest and desperation when you are ready to "fight in the sandbox for a toy".

I laugh to myself quietly when they struggle to put an arm around a girls shoulder, while I come in with kino right from the first encounter escalating naturally up to heavy kino, and getting the chicks to reciprocate. They look at me like I am Jesus and get instantly jealous....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PapiChulo said:
I think you are making a great point there, and besides that I dont have to prove anything to them and the women. I also I assume it shows too much interest and desperation when you are ready to "fight in the sandbox for a toy".

I laugh to myself quietly when they struggle to put an arm around a girls shoulder, while I come in with kino right from the first encounter escalating naturally up to heavy kino, and getting the chicks to reciprocate. They look at me like I am Jesus and get instantly jealous....

Yep bro ! That's the way to go. When someone comes to me like: " I'm better than you at basket, base-ball, soccer, women" I say one thing: I do the talking on the court, the field.

You understand the game and they are mad, when they will decide that they wanna play too, they'll come to you for advise, but for now, they just like to hate and c0ckblock ohhh well.

(You have haters when you do something right, if it ain't the case, you're doing something wrong)
 
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