"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Handling ****blocks

PapiChulo

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I am talking about my college buddies (not friends) who try to ****block each other like immature boys when they see a woman. They have no game and don't know what they are doing, they learn from me though (fuk em so much)

I know what I am doing with this type of chicks and score rather higher than those d!ckheads on everything: looks, money, personality,age,experience, etc.

Should I stay laid back and just let them embarrass themselves, or jump in there and defeat every ****block like Jakie Chan, or maybe even ****block myself? (at times I feel physically aggressive which is never a good thing)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah, I've been having questions about this one too. There's these 2 knuckleheads that do that and there's this one other girl Ive been having my eye on that's surrounded by guy friends all the time who ****block all challengers and each other.
 

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Ever had a desire to b!tch-slap one of them with your pimp hand?
 

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Should I stay laid back and just let them embarrass themselves, or jump in there and defeat every ****block like Jakie Chan, or maybe even ****block myself?
Just laid back and enjoy the show. Checkout the ladies, do what you have to do, because no one will do it for you. Now, the beauty behind not doing anything to stop the c0ckblock, is that the girls who wanted to check out your buddies will have a little something for you because you don't child play in the sandbox.

Now if it's going too far (as far as the c0ckblock is concerned) call your buddies on their sh1t, stand your ground and don't apologize. Not your fault if they don't wanna play the game correctly.

Play on !
 

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I think you are making a great point there, and besides that I dont have to prove anything to them and the women. I also I assume it shows too much interest and desperation when you are ready to "fight in the sandbox for a toy".

I laugh to myself quietly when they struggle to put an arm around a girls shoulder, while I come in with kino right from the first encounter escalating naturally up to heavy kino, and getting the chicks to reciprocate. They look at me like I am Jesus and get instantly jealous....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PapiChulo said:
I think you are making a great point there, and besides that I dont have to prove anything to them and the women. I also I assume it shows too much interest and desperation when you are ready to "fight in the sandbox for a toy".

I laugh to myself quietly when they struggle to put an arm around a girls shoulder, while I come in with kino right from the first encounter escalating naturally up to heavy kino, and getting the chicks to reciprocate. They look at me like I am Jesus and get instantly jealous....

Yep bro ! That's the way to go. When someone comes to me like: " I'm better than you at basket, base-ball, soccer, women" I say one thing: I do the talking on the court, the field.

You understand the game and they are mad, when they will decide that they wanna play too, they'll come to you for advise, but for now, they just like to hate and c0ckblock ohhh well.

(You have haters when you do something right, if it ain't the case, you're doing something wrong)
 
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