"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hand Squeez

ace88

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Hi I'm a new user 27 from Italy.

I have read the other thread on the Squeeze issue at the "goodbye" handshake and I have a new question for all of you:

Saturday 4/10 Night. Club.
after 3 years i know her its 3 weeks field work. (3/4 solo dates)

We had a couple of drinks at the bar and had a chat while we waited for a group of friends. The didn't really pick up we did not want to go but had promised a common friend we would show up. Alcohol helped afters some mellow dancing i turn around to pick up my drink and I feel a finger running down my back. i slip my free hand behind my back she grabs hold of it and slowly starts squeezing it and does not stop when I pick up on it aswell.

Good day to all


P.s

some fellow lad should throw some banter my way cos i do feel like a proper knob asking this on a forum.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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MOTU

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Her touching you is definitely an IOI. Your response should have been to escalate.

If you didn't, be careful - you could end up in the friend zone. Remember, pat of being male is your sexual energy. Use it!!
 

ace88

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She has gone underground the past two days.... we'll see.
 
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