"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi I'm a new user 27 from Italy.

I have read the other thread on the Squeeze issue at the "goodbye" handshake and I have a new question for all of you:

Saturday 4/10 Night. Club.
after 3 years i know her its 3 weeks field work. (3/4 solo dates)

We had a couple of drinks at the bar and had a chat while we waited for a group of friends. The didn't really pick up we did not want to go but had promised a common friend we would show up. Alcohol helped afters some mellow dancing i turn around to pick up my drink and I feel a finger running down my back. i slip my free hand behind my back she grabs hold of it and slowly starts squeezing it and does not stop when I pick up on it aswell.

Good day to all


P.s

some fellow lad should throw some banter my way cos i do feel like a proper knob asking this on a forum.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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Her touching you is definitely an IOI. Your response should have been to escalate.

If you didn't, be careful - you could end up in the friend zone. Remember, pat of being male is your sexual energy. Use it!!
 
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She has gone underground the past two days.... we'll see.
 
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