"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Halp.

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Jerry Maguire

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I've got most things sorted out for my self-improvement path.
What's holding me back, though, is the insecurity that I am not fun and interesting.

How do you guys think I could get around this?

Thanks in advance for your responses.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Don't worry if your fun and interesting. Just have fun where ever your at and have a positive attitude. Also, look under ATTITUDE in the DJ Bible. There's probably quite a bit of information there to help make you more "fun and interesting!"
 
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I agree with I.A.F.Y.B.

If you're thinking about having fun, then there is a problem. As long as you have a care free, upbeat, attitude, then people will enjoy being around you. Don't work hard on trying to impress. Act naturally and enjoy the conversation. The funny parts will come naturally.

If you ever feel like you don't have anything to say. Ask them questions that you would want to answer. Then when they've answered, answer your own question. If you have similar answers, agree with the person, then add your little bit to it.

Conversation is supposed to be fun. It should never seem like a chore. Relax and enjoy it. Good luck.
 
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^Wisdom... Couldn't have said it better.
 
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