“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Halp.

Jerry Maguire

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I've got most things sorted out for my self-improvement path.
What's holding me back, though, is the insecurity that I am not fun and interesting.

How do you guys think I could get around this?

Thanks in advance for your responses.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Don't worry if your fun and interesting. Just have fun where ever your at and have a positive attitude. Also, look under ATTITUDE in the DJ Bible. There's probably quite a bit of information there to help make you more "fun and interesting!"
 

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I agree with I.A.F.Y.B.

If you're thinking about having fun, then there is a problem. As long as you have a care free, upbeat, attitude, then people will enjoy being around you. Don't work hard on trying to impress. Act naturally and enjoy the conversation. The funny parts will come naturally.

If you ever feel like you don't have anything to say. Ask them questions that you would want to answer. Then when they've answered, answer your own question. If you have similar answers, agree with the person, then add your little bit to it.

Conversation is supposed to be fun. It should never seem like a chore. Relax and enjoy it. Good luck.
 

zerocelcius

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^Wisdom... Couldn't have said it better.
 
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