"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Never been one to keep up on a journal, figured I would give it a shot.

My current supps are:
Mega Men Sport multi vitamin.
NO-Xplode
ON vanilla whey protien
Lipo-6 Black

I was up to 370 lbs (seriously) when I was living in Chicago (Giant burritos and BK were easily accessible and cheap) , always been a naturally large dude (6'5 barrel chested gorilla man 15EEEE shoes) but that was just out of control. I have already cut back down to 300 (298) as of yesterday.

I have started boxing again, my workout is not exactly structured, neither is my diet. I make sure to focus in the gym, I am the first one in and make sure I am the last one out.

Usually 2 rounds of skipping rope, 3 rounds on speed bag, 4 on the heavy bag and 3 on the double end bag. Plus any sparring I can get when I can get it. I am currently coaching a couple people, so I work with them on hand pads and move around the ring tons.

I have been testing intermittent fasting, going for a 19/5 eating pattern, but I find myself often not being very hungry (yesterday I ate after 28 hours of fasting) The point is to load up in that 5 hours

I am mostly vegetarian right now, my staple is sweet potatoes, occasionally chicken breasts or tuna and lots of fibrous raw veggies. Problem is I am definitely not hitting 2k calories everyday, and I honestly probably need more than that to remain healthy.


I am looking to get a membership to a 24/7 gym, so I can lift at night (I am a nocturnal critter) but I worry about over training. I still have tons of energy after my workouts and my recovery has been great. Even with the strange eating pattern I am burning fat and maintaining if not gaining muscle.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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3:00 two scoops of ON Whey.

4:00 I will be walking across town to go to the gym.

6:30 back from gym, went well 1 scoop of soy protein and 1 scoop of ON whey.

Energy and intensity is still off the charts, hard to manage, I am a bit restless and feeling pretty aggressive.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Been busy as hell, picked up membership to 24/7 gym.

been starting to lift alongside boxing.. working my core.

Lost another 5 lbs. Every chick I am meeting is now giving me come **** me looks... gotta love it.

Had a couple dates that went well this week too.
 

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Did that ^ Leg workout tonight. Pretty killer, sadly my legs are very resistant to training, fat kid legs, they have always been ripped, which also makes me look like I have chicken legs.

Also lost another two pounds, that makes roughly ten since posting this journal.
 

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Boxed yesterday and today.

Today I did four rounds of sparring 2 rounds with 2 opponents, they could not hang, need someone more badass to spar with.
 

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Legs again tonight.

Got a flyer today concerning this: http://www.teamintraining.org/

Very interested in participating in this.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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