"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Never been one to keep up on a journal, figured I would give it a shot.

My current supps are:
Mega Men Sport multi vitamin.
NO-Xplode
ON vanilla whey protien
Lipo-6 Black

I was up to 370 lbs (seriously) when I was living in Chicago (Giant burritos and BK were easily accessible and cheap) , always been a naturally large dude (6'5 barrel chested gorilla man 15EEEE shoes) but that was just out of control. I have already cut back down to 300 (298) as of yesterday.

I have started boxing again, my workout is not exactly structured, neither is my diet. I make sure to focus in the gym, I am the first one in and make sure I am the last one out.

Usually 2 rounds of skipping rope, 3 rounds on speed bag, 4 on the heavy bag and 3 on the double end bag. Plus any sparring I can get when I can get it. I am currently coaching a couple people, so I work with them on hand pads and move around the ring tons.

I have been testing intermittent fasting, going for a 19/5 eating pattern, but I find myself often not being very hungry (yesterday I ate after 28 hours of fasting) The point is to load up in that 5 hours

I am mostly vegetarian right now, my staple is sweet potatoes, occasionally chicken breasts or tuna and lots of fibrous raw veggies. Problem is I am definitely not hitting 2k calories everyday, and I honestly probably need more than that to remain healthy.


I am looking to get a membership to a 24/7 gym, so I can lift at night (I am a nocturnal critter) but I worry about over training. I still have tons of energy after my workouts and my recovery has been great. Even with the strange eating pattern I am burning fat and maintaining if not gaining muscle.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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3:00 two scoops of ON Whey.

4:00 I will be walking across town to go to the gym.

6:30 back from gym, went well 1 scoop of soy protein and 1 scoop of ON whey.

Energy and intensity is still off the charts, hard to manage, I am a bit restless and feeling pretty aggressive.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Been busy as hell, picked up membership to 24/7 gym.

been starting to lift alongside boxing.. working my core.

Lost another 5 lbs. Every chick I am meeting is now giving me come **** me looks... gotta love it.

Had a couple dates that went well this week too.
 

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Did that ^ Leg workout tonight. Pretty killer, sadly my legs are very resistant to training, fat kid legs, they have always been ripped, which also makes me look like I have chicken legs.

Also lost another two pounds, that makes roughly ten since posting this journal.
 

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Boxed yesterday and today.

Today I did four rounds of sparring 2 rounds with 2 opponents, they could not hang, need someone more badass to spar with.
 

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Legs again tonight.

Got a flyer today concerning this: http://www.teamintraining.org/

Very interested in participating in this.

America's Most Beautiful Bike Ride June 3, 2012
The 21st Annual America's Most Beautiful Bike Ride circumnavigates the highways clockwise around Lake Tahoe in Nevada and California. The event features breathtaking views with challenging climbs and short rolling ascents and descents. This ride is a must-do for all cyclists. Picturesque rest stops and ample support will greet riders as they navigate around Lake Tahoe.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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