"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Never been one to keep up on a journal, figured I would give it a shot.

My current supps are:
Mega Men Sport multi vitamin.
NO-Xplode
ON vanilla whey protien
Lipo-6 Black

I was up to 370 lbs (seriously) when I was living in Chicago (Giant burritos and BK were easily accessible and cheap) , always been a naturally large dude (6'5 barrel chested gorilla man 15EEEE shoes) but that was just out of control. I have already cut back down to 300 (298) as of yesterday.

I have started boxing again, my workout is not exactly structured, neither is my diet. I make sure to focus in the gym, I am the first one in and make sure I am the last one out.

Usually 2 rounds of skipping rope, 3 rounds on speed bag, 4 on the heavy bag and 3 on the double end bag. Plus any sparring I can get when I can get it. I am currently coaching a couple people, so I work with them on hand pads and move around the ring tons.

I have been testing intermittent fasting, going for a 19/5 eating pattern, but I find myself often not being very hungry (yesterday I ate after 28 hours of fasting) The point is to load up in that 5 hours

I am mostly vegetarian right now, my staple is sweet potatoes, occasionally chicken breasts or tuna and lots of fibrous raw veggies. Problem is I am definitely not hitting 2k calories everyday, and I honestly probably need more than that to remain healthy.


I am looking to get a membership to a 24/7 gym, so I can lift at night (I am a nocturnal critter) but I worry about over training. I still have tons of energy after my workouts and my recovery has been great. Even with the strange eating pattern I am burning fat and maintaining if not gaining muscle.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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3:00 two scoops of ON Whey.

4:00 I will be walking across town to go to the gym.

6:30 back from gym, went well 1 scoop of soy protein and 1 scoop of ON whey.

Energy and intensity is still off the charts, hard to manage, I am a bit restless and feeling pretty aggressive.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Been busy as hell, picked up membership to 24/7 gym.

been starting to lift alongside boxing.. working my core.

Lost another 5 lbs. Every chick I am meeting is now giving me come **** me looks... gotta love it.

Had a couple dates that went well this week too.
 

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Did that ^ Leg workout tonight. Pretty killer, sadly my legs are very resistant to training, fat kid legs, they have always been ripped, which also makes me look like I have chicken legs.

Also lost another two pounds, that makes roughly ten since posting this journal.
 

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Boxed yesterday and today.

Today I did four rounds of sparring 2 rounds with 2 opponents, they could not hang, need someone more badass to spar with.
 

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Legs again tonight.

Got a flyer today concerning this: http://www.teamintraining.org/

Very interested in participating in this.

America's Most Beautiful Bike Ride June 3, 2012
The 21st Annual America's Most Beautiful Bike Ride circumnavigates the highways clockwise around Lake Tahoe in Nevada and California. The event features breathtaking views with challenging climbs and short rolling ascents and descents. This ride is a must-do for all cyclists. Picturesque rest stops and ample support will greet riders as they navigate around Lake Tahoe.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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