“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hairstylist Gives Me Her Number

Renault

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So...I've recently been running into my hair stylist who moonlights as a server at this restaurant/bar I often go to. Since I talk to her both at the salon and the restaurant she works at, I've gotten to know her pretty good.

The other day at the restaurant (Thursday), I said I'd be coming in for a hair cut soon and she asked me if I had her number. I said no and she gave it to me and then told me to message her when I wanted to make an appt.

Now, obviously this is not how they operate and I'm 99% sure she just wanted me to have her number as I've gotten some subtle signals from her recently at the restaurant.

What I'd like to know is, do I need to use this phone number now in some way or can I wait to go get my hair cut this week, talk with her some more, and then text her to meet up next week?

I figured she already has plans this weekend, tomorrow is Easter, and besides...Sundays are weird nights for dates anyway. I'm just not sure what to do here.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

TheMonkeyKing

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Give it a few days. She's clearly interested. So just drop a line or call briefly next week to find out her availability and invite her out. Don't compromise your own availability. Just set a date, time and place that is mutually convenient. She'll either turn up or she won't. Sounds like she will though. Simple.
 

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When you get your hair cut, invite her out for a drink with you. When she agrees, tell her to give you her phone number.
 

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My stylist gave me her number and told me to text her when I needed an appt. I'm sure you are a man with SMV but I might wait till you get your hair cut and see how it goes. You'll know from that interaction if she wants more. JMO
 

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I'm sure you are a man with SMV but I might wait till you get your hair cut and see how it goes. You'll know from that interaction if she wants more. JMO
Yeah, I really need a hair cut bad so I made an appt this week with her through the receptionist without texting her first. I'll wait then to suggest meeting up for a drink if all seems to be going well.

If she responds positively, then I already have her number.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

MrOctober

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No no no don't let her cut your hair.

Seriously. just trust me I don't like the flow of that

Tons of barbers. She didn't give you the number for the haircut.
 

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I wouldnt take her seriously.
 

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I would get the haircut, and ask her on a date or if she wants to grab drinks just the 2 of you sometimes.. if she agrees which she most probably will, then you can wink at her saying something about how convenient it is you already have her number ;)
Do not pitch a date by text/phone tho... you talk to her face to face too often for that.
 
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