"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Capi Crimini
Banned
Most clippers go to a #5,#7's getting up there.
here's how it looks from a different view
www.patmedia.net/anildua/mee
Capi Crimini
Banned
I just would never do hair like that. You could probably go with a ceaser.(an inch to an inch and a half bangs it either #1 or two sides.) That would make you look better. if you put some pomade chunk in it. If you really wanted to look good. I'd recomend growing out your hair surfer style and dying it dirty blonde. I dunno if curls like that workwhere you are though I'd say keep them
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
jakethasnake
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No offense, but I don't want to sell myself out and dye my hair to try to look like Jeff Spicoli from 'Fast Times at Ridgemont High'. I ain't no wannbe whiteboy. I'm the genuine deal - a real Asian that's not afraid to be what he is. And I'd imagine Dip to be the same - proud of what ever the hell he is.
There are plenty of girls who will love a Puerto Rican or Chinese boy for who he is. Yes, even hot white chicks. So you continue being white, he'll continue being Puerto Rican, and I'll continue being the punkass Korean that I am.
Your an ignorant idiot. First of all, let me give you a little lesson. Gender is your sex(male or female). I beleive the correct term your lookin for was RACE.
Its sad to say, im not a rican, so you couldnt guess my race. Im Indian so **** you. Just because some ugly girls wont pay attention to the ugly mexicans in ur area, dosent mean its like that everywhere, i deff. get more play then you. You must be from Kansas or in some hick neighborhood, because i live in New Jersey, and its diverse here. I feel bad for you, you're a racist. The only reason you probably wouldnt do hair like that is because ur probably bold. So unless u wanna post a pic of ur self so we can hate on you, just shut the **** up *****
Capi Crimini
Banned
First off I used to live in Kansas. Sencond, I said if it works where you are then you should continue. NO were I used to live it was not racist. Simply women PREFERRED white boys. they still hung out with ricans,INDIANS, and blacks, ect.
Third because I wrote down the wrong word I'm an ignorant idiot. I know the difference between gender and race. But obviously you must not know the difference between bold and bald. I would be happy to post a picture of my-self as soon as I get my digital camera fixed. And I have shown my picture on this site before and to its members. NO i am not bald or balding. I'm not hatting on you. I was stating an opinion.
"I dunno if curls like that workwhere you are though I'd say keep them "
If I was hating I would have said something racist
And I assumed you were Rican becuase of
whats wrong with lookin rican? what if i am puerto rican??
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When I used to live in kansas there were Indians. too. From your facial structure you do look Indian. Though your hair does remind me of somehting mexican. I was stating what I thought would lok good. I never said hair like that wouldn't get you girls. I said in my area. (the Midwest) I've noticed girls like longer hair. Even when I lived in very diverse towns I noticed the same.
I like to experiment with my hair once in awhile, you know, same thing gets boring sometimes.. i've used sumotech's pomade- TOO EXPENSIVE (about $20) and i got negative responses, such as 'did you put machine oil in your hair? Did you wash your hair this week?)
I've used gel, I WOULD SUGGEST AVOIDING GEL. First, almost every single man with no clue in hair style uses gel... second, every single teen uses the same dumb trick - slick all over, sprike the front up.. and gel looks like your hair is wet.. and it gives you what i call "the plastic effect" -try running your hand through heavily gel'd hair and you'll see what im talking about.
Gel, however, does offer some positive things- it is very simple and strong..making it quick to use if you are out of time.
Right now i am using fructis style putty gum putty. It was $3 at walmart, it looks like green putty gel, and works for me at the moment.
About hair styles- i like the messy hair look, some people might give you **** like you are trying too hard - but dont worry about em..
I've done a mohawk once- when my roommates mom was coming over to visit him in college, and wanted to take us out to dinner to TGI fridays... hahaha, yeah, put a lot of gel in your hair, and style your hair up and together with both palms... takes some time to wash all that creativity out tho..
oh mickey you so fine, you so fine you blow my mind!
go get em tigers
Capi Crimini
Banned
I've never really used fructus though I've seen it.
But have you noticed that the cheaper pomades have better smells then a lot of the more expensive ones?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Capi Crimini
Banned
The best smelling one to me is citre` shine. It smells like oranges. citrusy. Pretty good stuff to. it's like 3-4 dollars. theres two of them. One that makes your hair chunky and glossing.
Glossing smells better.
I'm bored....
jakethasnake
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Oh hell ya, guys. I'm all about the 'Frutis' brand by L'Oreal. I have their hair gel, hair spray, pomade, and shampoo. I'm like completely loyal to that brand - smells VERY GOOD, has a good strong hold, and is cheap!
What more can you ask for?They are for sissies etc. Now everybody likes this guy's hair(
http://www.venushairdesign.co.uk/images/styles/crew_man99_04_w360.jpg) and he HAS highlights. I was thinking of highlighting my hair. I have light brown hair and I wanted to put a little lighter brown highlights? NOT BLONDE-that IS gay! I want highlights that are not very noticable.
Capi Crimini
Banned
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Spike_the_cowboy
Master Don Juan
http://www.venushairdesign.co.uk/images/styles/crew_man99_04_w360.jpg
so how many inches should i leave at the top, at the sides, and at the back?
how should i gel this? I use **** products like u can get @ the dollar store lol.
i heard if u want to get a good hairstyle that sort of makes your hairs stick together, you should style it when your hair is wet. If you want a dryer look, gel it when its dry. I personally like the dry look, but my hair is very rough, and sort of looks like needles on a porcupine when they arent gelled, and are dry.
I've been really trying forever to get that sort of hair, but never been able to because my barber always cuts my hair like the top of an umbrella or a mushroom the shape. so my back and sides grow unevenly.
DaVinci
Don Juan
cheap products are.
Liquid gels. (Fructis or L'oreal)
Get a Citrus' Shine High Gloss Pomade. Those should be able to get you that look. and there only a few bucks.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.