"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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klootzak

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a main problem for me recently is my hair. i can never find a hairstyle i feel comfortable with, and one that compliments my face well. I need an outside opinion on a suitable hairstyle for me, what you think would look good on me. i have naturally pretty curly hair, so gelling it up isnt that easy, so keep that in mind. my hair is also usually brown/blondish.
I really want to have longish hair, but what kind of long hair style would suit me? Should i grow my hair, would i look good with long hair?.....i really apprecieate your help!

btw, sorry for the bad pic

 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kas

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Shouldn't gel hair like that. Looks so greasy which looks like you dont rlly care.

Curly hair looks bad long I think. Id keep it quite short. Keep your sides very tight, looks bad the way they are now.
 

klootzak

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it isnt necessarily curly, its more wavy, kind of like Bon Jovi or someone with hair like that lol...I dont think i suit short hair, since i have blond eyebrows, whihc tends to make my face look bare...i cant describe it, i just dont like my face without a good fringe. As you can see, My face is of a rectangular/triangular structure, if thats any help.
Thanks for helping Kas, would you happen to have any pics that could help see what you mean?
 
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your chin is kinda narrow from that pic, but i can't be sure, since there was no frontal shot...assuming you have a heart-shaped face, you should try to grow your hair longer to balance out the protruding chin, so growing more hair at the back would be ideal.

my barber said the goal is try to bring not exaggerate the face shape, if you have a square face, dont get a square cut, unless your muscleman like arnold, and if your chin is small, dont have too much hair, or you look gay like james blunt. :D

i can't really tell whast your face shape from the pic, but all i can say is to make your face look round, don't exaggerate any features, if you are skinny, don't have too much hair or too little hair, if you have a long neck, try to conceal that with longer hair... etc. etc.
 

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You look a bit (and I mean a BIT) like Sean Bean - why not try something like him?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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grr

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Shorten it and you're good. What you leave behind in style you gain with masculinity.
 

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With hair that long. Use hairspray. Google some pictures of Chad Michael Murray.
 

klootzak

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what kind of hairspray can i use? and how could i style it?
 
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