"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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klootzak

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a main problem for me recently is my hair. i can never find a hairstyle i feel comfortable with, and one that compliments my face well. I need an outside opinion on a suitable hairstyle for me, what you think would look good on me. i have naturally pretty curly hair, so gelling it up isnt that easy, so keep that in mind. my hair is also usually brown/blondish.
I really want to have longish hair, but what kind of long hair style would suit me? Should i grow my hair, would i look good with long hair?.....i really apprecieate your help!

btw, sorry for the bad pic

 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Shouldn't gel hair like that. Looks so greasy which looks like you dont rlly care.

Curly hair looks bad long I think. Id keep it quite short. Keep your sides very tight, looks bad the way they are now.
 

klootzak

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it isnt necessarily curly, its more wavy, kind of like Bon Jovi or someone with hair like that lol...I dont think i suit short hair, since i have blond eyebrows, whihc tends to make my face look bare...i cant describe it, i just dont like my face without a good fringe. As you can see, My face is of a rectangular/triangular structure, if thats any help.
Thanks for helping Kas, would you happen to have any pics that could help see what you mean?
 
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your chin is kinda narrow from that pic, but i can't be sure, since there was no frontal shot...assuming you have a heart-shaped face, you should try to grow your hair longer to balance out the protruding chin, so growing more hair at the back would be ideal.

my barber said the goal is try to bring not exaggerate the face shape, if you have a square face, dont get a square cut, unless your muscleman like arnold, and if your chin is small, dont have too much hair, or you look gay like james blunt. :D

i can't really tell whast your face shape from the pic, but all i can say is to make your face look round, don't exaggerate any features, if you are skinny, don't have too much hair or too little hair, if you have a long neck, try to conceal that with longer hair... etc. etc.
 

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You look a bit (and I mean a BIT) like Sean Bean - why not try something like him?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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grr

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Shorten it and you're good. What you leave behind in style you gain with masculinity.
 

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With hair that long. Use hairspray. Google some pictures of Chad Michael Murray.
 

klootzak

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what kind of hairspray can i use? and how could i style it?
 
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