"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Hairdresser Girl

Floydispink01

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 30, 2015
Messages
218
Reaction score
210
Gents,

I've recently been going to this barbers next to my work for the last month owned by this cute chick. Its only her who works there. She's cut my hair twice now and we have good banter whilst she's chopping my Barnet. She tells me that she lives a boring life and asks what do etc. (Obviously she's being chatty as part of her job)

I would like to ask her out. I should of done after this after my cut tonight.

Question - Should I just walk into her shop tomorrow and ask her out or wait til I get my hair cut. I'm thinking its kind of an intrusion when it's her work time just to stroll in.

How would you approach this?

I'm thinking of saying 'Hey Clare, I think your kinda cool. Would you like to meet up for a drink later this week?'

Thoughts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

kronreiff

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 9, 2015
Messages
131
Reaction score
90
When you get your next haircut. I would get her phone number (personal-not business). If you get it, make her wait a couple of days or so and call her for a casual date. Something simple like a drink where you can get to know her a bit and vice versa. Keep it light and let her talk. Always be a challenge and a bit of a mystery. Good Luck.
 

cola

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 26, 2009
Messages
2,224
Reaction score
3,002
Location
Baltimore
I'm thinking of saying 'Hey Clare, I think your kinda cool. Would you like to meet up for a drink later this evening?' Ill pick you up when you get off
^^

Less ambiguous, more exciting ..

"Ill pick you up when you get off" shows confidence because you assumed the answer was yes.

Shout me out at the wedding
 

MrWiggles

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 8, 2016
Messages
173
Reaction score
93
Age
41
Hey Clare, let's get a drink when you're off. Don't use too many words or ask her for a yes or no (would you like...) giving her too much time to come up with an excuse. Just lead her to the drink and eventually your penis...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Reykhel

Banned
Joined
Aug 19, 2015
Messages
2,152
Reaction score
1,739
Gents,

I've recently been going to this barbers next to my work for the last month owned by this cute chick. Its only her who works there. She's cut my hair twice now and we have good banter whilst she's chopping my Barnet. She tells me that she lives a boring life and asks what do etc. (Obviously she's being chatty as part of her job)

I would like to ask her out. I should of done after this after my cut tonight.

Question - Should I just walk into her shop tomorrow and ask her out or wait til I get my hair cut. I'm thinking its kind of an intrusion when it's her work time just to stroll in.

How would you approach this?

I'm thinking of saying 'Hey Clare, I think your kinda cool. Would you like to meet up for a drink later this week?'

Thoughts?
Well it sounded like she was setting you up to ask her out by saying she lives a boring life and what to do........that was your cue to suggest that you could add some spark to her life if she played her cards right......

I like the if qualifier......if you're nice.....if you're a good girl.......if you behave......they seem to always jump on that if with an I'm always........

March in an say you want a word with her about your last haircut. Tell her your not happy and are thinking of changing hairdressers. However, you'd be willing to let her make it up to you by buying you a drink...................all said in a kind of........is he serious about the haircut or is it in jest??? manner......

if she objects by saying she can't date clients, tell her that's cool she's not up to scratch as a hairdresser any way that's why you're changing...........jokey, racey negs.......so I'll pick you up at 7....don't be late
 
Top