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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm 6'2 about 165 lbs. I have thick curly brown hair and i have never had a different haircut/style. It's hot as hell where i live and i play sports frequently. I am seriously considering buzzin my head but i need some advice. I have a long face and a small head. I am worried as to how i will look afterwards. I don;t have a big nose, but it is slightly larger than normal i think. what do you guys think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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requested said:
I'm 6'2 about 165 lbs. I have thick curly brown hair and i have never had a different haircut/style. It's hot as hell where i live and i play sports frequently. I am seriously considering buzzin my head but i need some advice. I have a long face and a small head. I am worried as to how i will look afterwards. I don;t have a big nose, but it is slightly larger than normal i think. what do you guys think?
I had long hair for most of my life. In college it was way below my shoulders. After college I cut it for work, but it was still on the longish side. A couple years ago after being dumped, I was watching the Royal Tennenbaums and Luke Wilson kinda purges himself by shaving of his hair and beard. I decided to do the same. End result: I looked fvcking killer. Added plus: 0 maintenance. What my story is worth for you: Nothing, probably. haha.

I'd just do it. If you don't like it, it'll grow back.
 

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requested said:
I'm 6'2 about 165 lbs. I have thick curly brown hair and i have never had a different haircut/style. It's hot as hell where i live and i play sports frequently. I am seriously considering buzzin my head but i need some advice. I have a long face and a small head. I am worried as to how i will look afterwards. I don;t have a big nose, but it is slightly larger than normal i think. what do you guys think?
See, the good thing about a hair cut is that at usually it will grow back, and you can fix it.

Give it a try. That's all I can say withoout knowing what you look like. I have a big nose and a long face, and it looks fine when I buzz it.

Just be prepared. First time I buzzed cut my style, I had ALL the girls rubbing on the buzz cut. Sounds great, but it might be a downfall depending on your friends/ lady friends. I had some some really weird girls just grabbing my head for the first week. A little unsettling.

But, on the plus side, the cute ones might do that too.

Of course, I did it for swim class.

Actually, the buzz cut isn't bad in the summer. It's a little cold in freezing cold weather, but it dries quickly, so that's a plus. I step out of the shower, and 60 seconds later, it's completely dry.

So again, all I can say is give it a try.
 

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For every (white) guy who looks good with a shaved head, there are at least three who look ridiculous. Some guys can pull it off if they have the right facial structure/facial hair/eyebrows, but most guys just end up looking like chemo patients.
 

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I'd recommend just taking it down very short. I do mine State Police style(Im going in law enforcment). Once you get it this short, you should have a good idea of what it may look like totally shaved.
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i say you pull your hair back to the top and take pictures of your side, you back, and your front... and we'll determine what you look like with a buzz cut.

i say that because we can tell if you have a widows peak or really high hairline... etc.

widows peak makes it much better... usually.

and if you do... don't straighten your hairline like those white kids that try being black.

or a fat person that has a buzz cut... that just looks like you're too lazy to do your hair so you can play world of warcraft more... or your hair is getting in the way of your eyes and stopping you from your mass killing of enemy players.
 

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Wellll i did it...

I buzzed my head using a #4. Actually, i think it looks pretty good. We'll see some reactions today but overall i like it.
 
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