"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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haircut- buzzin my head

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I'm 6'2 about 165 lbs. I have thick curly brown hair and i have never had a different haircut/style. It's hot as hell where i live and i play sports frequently. I am seriously considering buzzin my head but i need some advice. I have a long face and a small head. I am worried as to how i will look afterwards. I don;t have a big nose, but it is slightly larger than normal i think. what do you guys think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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requested said:
I'm 6'2 about 165 lbs. I have thick curly brown hair and i have never had a different haircut/style. It's hot as hell where i live and i play sports frequently. I am seriously considering buzzin my head but i need some advice. I have a long face and a small head. I am worried as to how i will look afterwards. I don;t have a big nose, but it is slightly larger than normal i think. what do you guys think?
I had long hair for most of my life. In college it was way below my shoulders. After college I cut it for work, but it was still on the longish side. A couple years ago after being dumped, I was watching the Royal Tennenbaums and Luke Wilson kinda purges himself by shaving of his hair and beard. I decided to do the same. End result: I looked fvcking killer. Added plus: 0 maintenance. What my story is worth for you: Nothing, probably. haha.

I'd just do it. If you don't like it, it'll grow back.
 

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requested said:
I'm 6'2 about 165 lbs. I have thick curly brown hair and i have never had a different haircut/style. It's hot as hell where i live and i play sports frequently. I am seriously considering buzzin my head but i need some advice. I have a long face and a small head. I am worried as to how i will look afterwards. I don;t have a big nose, but it is slightly larger than normal i think. what do you guys think?
See, the good thing about a hair cut is that at usually it will grow back, and you can fix it.

Give it a try. That's all I can say withoout knowing what you look like. I have a big nose and a long face, and it looks fine when I buzz it.

Just be prepared. First time I buzzed cut my style, I had ALL the girls rubbing on the buzz cut. Sounds great, but it might be a downfall depending on your friends/ lady friends. I had some some really weird girls just grabbing my head for the first week. A little unsettling.

But, on the plus side, the cute ones might do that too.

Of course, I did it for swim class.

Actually, the buzz cut isn't bad in the summer. It's a little cold in freezing cold weather, but it dries quickly, so that's a plus. I step out of the shower, and 60 seconds later, it's completely dry.

So again, all I can say is give it a try.
 

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For every (white) guy who looks good with a shaved head, there are at least three who look ridiculous. Some guys can pull it off if they have the right facial structure/facial hair/eyebrows, but most guys just end up looking like chemo patients.
 

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I'd recommend just taking it down very short. I do mine State Police style(Im going in law enforcment). Once you get it this short, you should have a good idea of what it may look like totally shaved.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i say you pull your hair back to the top and take pictures of your side, you back, and your front... and we'll determine what you look like with a buzz cut.

i say that because we can tell if you have a widows peak or really high hairline... etc.

widows peak makes it much better... usually.

and if you do... don't straighten your hairline like those white kids that try being black.

or a fat person that has a buzz cut... that just looks like you're too lazy to do your hair so you can play world of warcraft more... or your hair is getting in the way of your eyes and stopping you from your mass killing of enemy players.
 

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Wellll i did it...

I buzzed my head using a #4. Actually, i think it looks pretty good. We'll see some reactions today but overall i like it.
 
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