Dante Brasco
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Just a quick question. i'm a Freshman in high school, if it helps so what do women prefer? Hair going forward normally or spiked with gel?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Hair...
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
From my experience, chicks dig spiky hair more...it gives you a more "f*ck you" attitude, which high school chicks looove.
triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
Oh God I hate Dep. I used to use it but then I realized that with hair products, you get what you pay for, and Wal-Mart sells crappy hair products. I would HIGHLY recommend Paul Mitchell's "Tea Tree" Gel. It might be a bit more expensive than you're used to, but it is great. In fact, the whole line is great. Buy it all. I did.
Viper423
Senior Don Juan
Well, I've been growing my hair out for the past 2 1/2 months cause a lot of girls told me I should grow it out shaggy. Girls are in love with guys with long hair, just hair they can play with.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Elevenbravo
Don Juan
Yeah I grew my hair out also, girls like to play with it. But should i gel it? I have been but it wears out pretty fast.
fbplayer06
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man whatever...it's just hair
MidwestFreek
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believe me..it makes all the diff to the ladies...guy with nice hair cut...or w/e..is more attractive than some guy whos got a wanna be fro stickin all over the place looking like he had sex with an outlet
Dante Brasco
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So are you saying no to spiking?
fbplayer06
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No. Do whatever you want, but don't worry so much about your hair.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Spike_the_cowboy
Master Don Juan
Women are like raccoons!
Who can say no to spikey?....
Really, your hair should be clean, dry and soft to the touch.
Because they are going to want to stick their
hands in it. Plus guys who use too much product
are a turn off to most women.
If a woman's hand gets stuck to your head because of
all the hair product... it could be bad for business.
Leave the wet look to the boy-bands.
Who can say no to spikey?....
Really, your hair should be clean, dry and soft to the touch.
Because they are going to want to stick their
hands in it. Plus guys who use too much product
are a turn off to most women.
If a woman's hand gets stuck to your head because of
all the hair product... it could be bad for business.
Leave the wet look to the boy-bands.
Superman X
Banned
I would experiment with wax and gel and to see what works for you. I use Paul Mitchell dry wax now and my hair looks much better than it does dry, and not greasy. It's expensive for a small tub of it, but then again it lasts a long time.
-Dan
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CableLight
Master Don Juan
Hippy till I die...
Long hair lives on
Long hair lives on
i find that girls arent attracted to one particular style of hair. different styles of hair look good on different guys. i find girls are usually attracted to guys with clean hair, and altogether a good level of personal hygene.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ManOfTheHour
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If you're gonna have long hair, at least keep it evenly cut and wash it. Trust me, otherwise you'll look like a homeless guy. It doesn't really matter how you have your hair, but how you take care of it. Some guys can have really short hair and still looke like $hit. Whatever you do, try to make it obvious that you care about the way you look.
Wow. Wtf?
What's with all the controversy over HAIR?! Have it however you feel best with, who gives a damn about what the girls think is in and what isn't. If you feel you look best in hairstyle A over B, go with that. Don't go with C just cause the girls tell you you should do this and that. Hell, if you do what they tell you, isn't that just another form of supplicating, boys? I was told many a time to keep my hair natural. Never did, cause it doesn't fit me (only the odd time). That simple.
End of story.
What's with all the controversy over HAIR?! Have it however you feel best with, who gives a damn about what the girls think is in and what isn't. If you feel you look best in hairstyle A over B, go with that. Don't go with C just cause the girls tell you you should do this and that. Hell, if you do what they tell you, isn't that just another form of supplicating, boys? I was told many a time to keep my hair natural. Never did, cause it doesn't fit me (only the odd time). That simple.
End of story.
Ace of Spades
Don Juan
Not sure whether or not it's been said, but I think that spiky hair is pretty banal in this day and age. If you have to spike your hair in order to express your "non-conformity", well then **** you Thoreau.
Spike_the_cowboy
Master Don Juan
If you're trying, you're trying too d@mn hard!
I have very fuzzy/curly hair.
It was straight when it was about a foot long,
but I cut it all off a while back to about 3" long.
Now it is fuzzy/curly again,
and women can't keep their hands out of it.
Besides, 'horse tails' are creepy to most women.
Its right up there with facial hair and psychotic behavior.
Double standard?... Yes (I'm talking about the poney tail,
not the facial hair and psychotic behavior).
Then again, you don't really like psychotic women with facial hair, do you?...
I guess its about even when you sit down and really think about it.
Joking aside, I like my hair shorter anyways.
Step into shower, step out of shower - no complications.
Just be true to yourself. If she don't like it, forget her.
She can be replaced.
Respect yourself, accept yourself - f*ck anyone who dosen't.
I have very fuzzy/curly hair.
It was straight when it was about a foot long,
but I cut it all off a while back to about 3" long.
Now it is fuzzy/curly again,
and women can't keep their hands out of it.
Besides, 'horse tails' are creepy to most women.
Its right up there with facial hair and psychotic behavior.
Double standard?... Yes (I'm talking about the poney tail,
not the facial hair and psychotic behavior).
Then again, you don't really like psychotic women with facial hair, do you?...
I guess its about even when you sit down and really think about it.
Joking aside, I like my hair shorter anyways.
Step into shower, step out of shower - no complications.
Just be true to yourself. If she don't like it, forget her.
She can be replaced.
Respect yourself, accept yourself - f*ck anyone who dosen't.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.