"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SanctuaryX

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Anyways I'm new here and I want some *****.
But there has been one thing really bugging me. I am half black and half white and I love my longish hair. I want to style it but there aren't many sites that help with my kind of hair (soft with little nappiness and curly). I have been wanting to rock Lenny Kravitz's sorta spiky fro (If you remember how that looked) or anything besides cornrows and a poofy round fro. I really need some help here because my last resort would be cutting it which I also don't want to do because I love my hair and it would make me sad to take it off and look like every black/semi black person with a short cut w/ an edge up. I hate looking like everyone else so someone plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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cutting it fairly low is a good option, but since you dont want to do that, dreadlocks are also a great, but hard to keep neat (but i think they look great and the black women love them). Afors are definitely the worst tho. You're prolly better off cutting it fairly short than keeping an afro.
 

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Yeah man, dreads, corns or a low-cut are all good options for you. It depends what kind of maintenence you're willing to do, and what style you're feeling. Dreads and corns stand out, so if that matches your personality then they will go down well.

Shame us white fellas can't pull it off!
 

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The thing is none of that matches my personality. I'm actually more preppy than ghetto and I have been going to catholic school all my life. Gettin cornrows wouldn't fit my personality at all (dreads maybe but they seem kinda dirty). To tell the truth the spiky fro Lenny Kravitz had kinda like styles 7 and 4 herehttp://www.thehairstyler.com/celebrity_hairstyle.asp?name=Lenny+Kravitz
(this site makes me have to pay 15 dollard to find one haircut though and I don't want to do that)
Anyways I hope you know what I'm gettin at.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jerri curls the way to go. Don't try to go with white hairdos, because you will never resemble white hair. Stick to black haircuts.
 

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The hairstyles I have shown aren't exactly white hairstyles. Lenny kravitz has just about the exact skin color as me and his face is square like mine is. I have gotten my hair cut short all my life and I don't feel good about keeping it the same for so long. I have pictured myself with all type of hairstyles abd I like the ones that I showed on that link but I have no idea how to get them and that's what I want some help doing.

ps. My hair when wet turns into jehri curls and personally I think they look retarded. I have asked my girl-friends how I would look w/ that lenny kravitz look and they said it would be sexy as hell so plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz if anyone knows how to do it tell me.
 
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