Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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SanctuaryX

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Anyways I'm new here and I want some *****.
But there has been one thing really bugging me. I am half black and half white and I love my longish hair. I want to style it but there aren't many sites that help with my kind of hair (soft with little nappiness and curly). I have been wanting to rock Lenny Kravitz's sorta spiky fro (If you remember how that looked) or anything besides cornrows and a poofy round fro. I really need some help here because my last resort would be cutting it which I also don't want to do because I love my hair and it would make me sad to take it off and look like every black/semi black person with a short cut w/ an edge up. I hate looking like everyone else so someone plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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saber101

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cutting it fairly low is a good option, but since you dont want to do that, dreadlocks are also a great, but hard to keep neat (but i think they look great and the black women love them). Afors are definitely the worst tho. You're prolly better off cutting it fairly short than keeping an afro.
 

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Yeah man, dreads, corns or a low-cut are all good options for you. It depends what kind of maintenence you're willing to do, and what style you're feeling. Dreads and corns stand out, so if that matches your personality then they will go down well.

Shame us white fellas can't pull it off!
 

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The thing is none of that matches my personality. I'm actually more preppy than ghetto and I have been going to catholic school all my life. Gettin cornrows wouldn't fit my personality at all (dreads maybe but they seem kinda dirty). To tell the truth the spiky fro Lenny Kravitz had kinda like styles 7 and 4 herehttp://www.thehairstyler.com/celebrity_hairstyle.asp?name=Lenny+Kravitz
(this site makes me have to pay 15 dollard to find one haircut though and I don't want to do that)
Anyways I hope you know what I'm gettin at.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jerri curls the way to go. Don't try to go with white hairdos, because you will never resemble white hair. Stick to black haircuts.
 

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The hairstyles I have shown aren't exactly white hairstyles. Lenny kravitz has just about the exact skin color as me and his face is square like mine is. I have gotten my hair cut short all my life and I don't feel good about keeping it the same for so long. I have pictured myself with all type of hairstyles abd I like the ones that I showed on that link but I have no idea how to get them and that's what I want some help doing.

ps. My hair when wet turns into jehri curls and personally I think they look retarded. I have asked my girl-friends how I would look w/ that lenny kravitz look and they said it would be sexy as hell so plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz if anyone knows how to do it tell me.
 
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