"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hair tips that work for me

everywomanshero

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Shampoo and Conditioner brands do matter for me, no matter what ABC insists. Personally, I like Paul Mitchell's stuff. I use the wash and the conditioner. Every few weeks I switch to some other random brand. I think these products do the best.

Here's where I get confused: There is about 10 million different gels, grooming pastes, promades, etc. How does a person determine his hair type? Also, how do you gentlemen determine what style of hair looks best? Is there some sort of software application that shows you new hairstyle or is there a good book you like? I usually just ask my stylist, but I'd like to generate someimages and show them to 20-30 females for a more throrough analysis. I really want to get my game tight over the next 6 months. After, that I'll be starting a new job, moving, etc so it'll be too hectic to concentrate on much else.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PeeGee

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Opinions will differ but I suggest you actually style your hair differently and field test them all out. Things that are too 'extreme' like bleaching your hair may not be advisable (I did my hair yellow once -- had good responses but I didn't like it after a few months), but there's little harm in trying something new if all it took was hair gel and a few minutes in front of the mirror.

I find the stylist method to be hit and miss -- I spike my hair straight up like a rocker so when I let my hair down there's this unsightly part down the middle.

So when I go to a hair stylist you can imagine the 'style' I end up with. I usually fix it outside but there you go.

I'd like to generate someimages and show them to 20-30 females for a more throrough analysis
I find something wrong with this line of thought -- just style your hair the way you want to.
 
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