"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hair tips that work for me

everywomanshero

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Shampoo and Conditioner brands do matter for me, no matter what ABC insists. Personally, I like Paul Mitchell's stuff. I use the wash and the conditioner. Every few weeks I switch to some other random brand. I think these products do the best.

Here's where I get confused: There is about 10 million different gels, grooming pastes, promades, etc. How does a person determine his hair type? Also, how do you gentlemen determine what style of hair looks best? Is there some sort of software application that shows you new hairstyle or is there a good book you like? I usually just ask my stylist, but I'd like to generate someimages and show them to 20-30 females for a more throrough analysis. I really want to get my game tight over the next 6 months. After, that I'll be starting a new job, moving, etc so it'll be too hectic to concentrate on much else.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PeeGee

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Opinions will differ but I suggest you actually style your hair differently and field test them all out. Things that are too 'extreme' like bleaching your hair may not be advisable (I did my hair yellow once -- had good responses but I didn't like it after a few months), but there's little harm in trying something new if all it took was hair gel and a few minutes in front of the mirror.

I find the stylist method to be hit and miss -- I spike my hair straight up like a rocker so when I let my hair down there's this unsightly part down the middle.

So when I go to a hair stylist you can imagine the 'style' I end up with. I usually fix it outside but there you go.

I'd like to generate someimages and show them to 20-30 females for a more throrough analysis
I find something wrong with this line of thought -- just style your hair the way you want to.
 
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