"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hair tips that work for me

everywomanshero

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Shampoo and Conditioner brands do matter for me, no matter what ABC insists. Personally, I like Paul Mitchell's stuff. I use the wash and the conditioner. Every few weeks I switch to some other random brand. I think these products do the best.

Here's where I get confused: There is about 10 million different gels, grooming pastes, promades, etc. How does a person determine his hair type? Also, how do you gentlemen determine what style of hair looks best? Is there some sort of software application that shows you new hairstyle or is there a good book you like? I usually just ask my stylist, but I'd like to generate someimages and show them to 20-30 females for a more throrough analysis. I really want to get my game tight over the next 6 months. After, that I'll be starting a new job, moving, etc so it'll be too hectic to concentrate on much else.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PeeGee

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Opinions will differ but I suggest you actually style your hair differently and field test them all out. Things that are too 'extreme' like bleaching your hair may not be advisable (I did my hair yellow once -- had good responses but I didn't like it after a few months), but there's little harm in trying something new if all it took was hair gel and a few minutes in front of the mirror.

I find the stylist method to be hit and miss -- I spike my hair straight up like a rocker so when I let my hair down there's this unsightly part down the middle.

So when I go to a hair stylist you can imagine the 'style' I end up with. I usually fix it outside but there you go.

I'd like to generate someimages and show them to 20-30 females for a more throrough analysis
I find something wrong with this line of thought -- just style your hair the way you want to.
 
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