"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BluEyes

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Hey guys, just a quick question. Are there any basic 'rules' you should follow when getting a haircut? Like, I know what I want personally. Yet I also want my hair to look decent. Right now I have pretty long hair...as in bangs just below eyebrows, over ears, etc. I want to get it cut short, to give it abit of an edge rather than a shag.

What I'm saying is, I have a relatively big nose(no not THAT big), so is there some unspoken rule that I shouldn't get my hair cut short? I got a comment acouple weeks ago from a friend, while he was remarking how alot of girls seemed to like me. He said "It must be the hair, dude" or some bogus like that. Obviously he has no idea what's really happening, but it still shows that people like my hair long.

Is there some website that I can go to that basically lays out all the Do's and Don'ts of haircuts?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jay Jay

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I shave it all off once a month. Minimal effort. And chicks love to rub it.
 

Thomas94305

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Depends on what's congruent with your style and personality. I've looked for websites, but they aren't helpful. They'll show haircuts your Mom might like...

Recommend you find a decent stylist in your area, and give her some freedom. I live on the left coast, and can find such for $25 a visit. Say to the stylist "I am not sure what to do with my hair. I want something that fits who I am, and would be attractive to women. You have freedom to recommend something quite different from what I have."
 

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If you're black I can help you, if not... uhh someone else got you i'm sure


-Cod3r
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BluEyes

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^^ Mine is #3 when I don't do anything to it. It's closer to #4 when I do.

Wondering if I should stay with what works, or trim the shag off and go clean cut. For who I am/what I do, clean cut would fit the stereotype.

I've been reading alot about facial shapes/features playing a big part in what hair style you should go for. Still torn between a basic flip cut(short, gelled, front spike) or a cut like Owen Wilson(long shag, bangs). According to the facial shape, I have the face of a model(in other words, should cut my hair and reveal face). Yet my nose is pretty prominent, so it also tells me I should keep the bangs.

Fvck.
 

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I only have 2 rules with getting a haircut.

1. request the hottest chick to cut your hair
2. game her

I like to pull the line..."Just make me look good." I think its the man version of fishing for a compliment though. haha!
 

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i keep my hair short bro, like it fits my style
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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green69

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BluEyes said:
^^ Mine is #3 when I don't do anything to it. It's closer to #4 when I do.

Wondering if I should stay with what works, or trim the shag off and go clean cut. For who I am/what I do, clean cut would fit the stereotype.

I've been reading alot about facial shapes/features playing a big part in what hair style you should go for. Still torn between a basic flip cut(short, gelled, front spike) or a cut like Owen Wilson(long shag, bangs). According to the facial shape, I have the face of a model(in other words, should cut my hair and reveal face). Yet my nose is pretty prominent, so it also tells me I should keep the bangs.

Fvck.
I'm trying to get something like #3. Not quite long enough yet but it's close. I used to have the clean cut gel look...but I'm not sure if it was best for me. My face is kind of the innocent pretty boy style, so I think longer hair gives me a little more rugged look. If your face is naturally masculine and/or rugged then maybe a shorter more 'neat' style might be the best choice for you.
 
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