"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hair style change

fbplayer06

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Hi all.

To be 100% frank, I am sick of my hair "style". I have a thick head of hair and no real callock, so I have always just brushed it back and forgot about it. It's time for a change.

I heard that it's a good idea to consult a gay hair stylist - they know what looks sexy on a man (lol). Should I do this?

Also, once I get my hair re-vamped, what are some good gels (or whatever) that I should use? I appreciate any advice.

-fbplayer06
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Master Homer

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lol I find that when you get a new haircut people act as if your a different person. A haircut is a good thing to follow a persona change. :)
 

fbplayer06

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Originally posted by Master Homer
A haircut is a good thing to follow a persona change. :)
I'll keep that in mind.
 

ARGH_Dude

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I was once in the same predicament. Hair is, in fact, an important factor of attraction - one of the first things a chick will notice. Your hair basically describes your character. Not taking care of it will show through. I've noticed that chicks have said I'm much more attractive with medium-cut hair spiked up. I gel my hair by individual strands, pull down my fringe slightly and pull back my hair on the sides. It's kinda hard to explain, but the change was definitely worth it. I don't use any specific brand of hair gel, I just buy ultra firm styling gel. Any will do basically, just as long as it'll hold your hair. :)
 

Viper423

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I've decided to change my hair style too at the insistence of some female friends, lol. I used to always keep my hair short, 2 haircuts a month, and 3 girls on 3 different occasions suggested that I grow my hair out "shaggy." They all told me I would look even hotter with shaggy hair. So, for the past 2 months, i've been growing it out. It should be where i want it in about 4 more months
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FBGangsta

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Hockey hair is the way to go! I'm growin mine out. If anyone doesn't know what hockey hair is.....watch miracle.......
 

NelsonAllan

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Thanks for sharing ,,,,,,, it will be true that a ponytail-friendly hairstyle with a shaggy bang can keep you looking stylish and tousled instead of tired and messy. For the dads, a corporate haircut will keep baby hands from pulling your rockstar look out from the roots.
 

NorwegianDJ

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I used to have pretty awesome hair when I put wax in it and stuff. I cant bother anymore, I find that it doesnt matter much.
I used ID extreme titanium. Great wax. Just put some on your fingers, heat it up in your hands and go crazy on your hair in 10-20 seconds.
You should provide a picture.
And provide a picture of your desired haircut to your hairdresser.
 
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