"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hair style change

fbplayer06

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Hi all.

To be 100% frank, I am sick of my hair "style". I have a thick head of hair and no real callock, so I have always just brushed it back and forgot about it. It's time for a change.

I heard that it's a good idea to consult a gay hair stylist - they know what looks sexy on a man (lol). Should I do this?

Also, once I get my hair re-vamped, what are some good gels (or whatever) that I should use? I appreciate any advice.

-fbplayer06
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Master Homer

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lol I find that when you get a new haircut people act as if your a different person. A haircut is a good thing to follow a persona change. :)
 

fbplayer06

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Originally posted by Master Homer
A haircut is a good thing to follow a persona change. :)
I'll keep that in mind.
 

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I was once in the same predicament. Hair is, in fact, an important factor of attraction - one of the first things a chick will notice. Your hair basically describes your character. Not taking care of it will show through. I've noticed that chicks have said I'm much more attractive with medium-cut hair spiked up. I gel my hair by individual strands, pull down my fringe slightly and pull back my hair on the sides. It's kinda hard to explain, but the change was definitely worth it. I don't use any specific brand of hair gel, I just buy ultra firm styling gel. Any will do basically, just as long as it'll hold your hair. :)
 

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I've decided to change my hair style too at the insistence of some female friends, lol. I used to always keep my hair short, 2 haircuts a month, and 3 girls on 3 different occasions suggested that I grow my hair out "shaggy." They all told me I would look even hotter with shaggy hair. So, for the past 2 months, i've been growing it out. It should be where i want it in about 4 more months
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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FBGangsta

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Hockey hair is the way to go! I'm growin mine out. If anyone doesn't know what hockey hair is.....watch miracle.......
 

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Thanks for sharing ,,,,,,, it will be true that a ponytail-friendly hairstyle with a shaggy bang can keep you looking stylish and tousled instead of tired and messy. For the dads, a corporate haircut will keep baby hands from pulling your rockstar look out from the roots.
 

NorwegianDJ

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I used to have pretty awesome hair when I put wax in it and stuff. I cant bother anymore, I find that it doesnt matter much.
I used ID extreme titanium. Great wax. Just put some on your fingers, heat it up in your hands and go crazy on your hair in 10-20 seconds.
You should provide a picture.
And provide a picture of your desired haircut to your hairdresser.
 
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