"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hair question.

xenten

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I have kinda long hair for a guy, my bangs so all the way down to my upper lip. I recently got a new job at a restaurant and they said I have to cut it. Tonight a girl, I'll call her Kim, that I'm into, and kim likes me too was playing with my hair, making my bangs go over my eyes. After Kim stopped I said "I have to get my hair cut" Kim said "oh" and started talking to her friend that was there. My question isn't about this girl. Has anyone noticed a change, bad not good, in girls attraction after getting their hair cut if it was long? I've heard on here that it is good to have short hair, but I have a receding hair line and I look like a child if my hair is short.

Sorry for the long post.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ah yes happened to me before. I used to have long hair like yours...I cut it down to a good 1 inch. I have the front going back and the back going up...so its like spikey. It goes really well with the starting to receed hair line.

I prefer to use hair wax because I dont like the "wet" look that gel gives you...but thats up to you.
 

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u shouldnt spend ur time worrying about this small stuff. if ur DJ skills are up to par, whether ur hair is long or short shouldnt really matter. at worst, she'll think it doesn't look so good, doens't mean she doesn't like u

if she's only interested in ur hair, maybe she's the wrong girl to pursue
 

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I realise you got no choice but having the same style you got(sort of anyway , a little short at the sides - lost a bet..), rember that your losing a prop though. Around here I'm one of the few guys who have hair lower than the eyes, gets many people attention in good ways too .

But hey like theys aid: dont matter to a DJ much!
 

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Originally posted by dyce
u shouldnt spend ur time worrying about this small stuff. if ur DJ skills are up to par, whether ur hair is long or short shouldnt really matter. at worst, she'll think it doesn't look so good, doens't mean she doesn't like u

if she's only interested in ur hair, maybe she's the wrong girl to pursue
Thats true dude, when I cut it all the girls I knew were all dissapointed about my hair cut...but i still know that i can pull them anytime i want and they're still waiting for me to break up with my gf lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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