"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hair question.

xenten

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I have kinda long hair for a guy, my bangs so all the way down to my upper lip. I recently got a new job at a restaurant and they said I have to cut it. Tonight a girl, I'll call her Kim, that I'm into, and kim likes me too was playing with my hair, making my bangs go over my eyes. After Kim stopped I said "I have to get my hair cut" Kim said "oh" and started talking to her friend that was there. My question isn't about this girl. Has anyone noticed a change, bad not good, in girls attraction after getting their hair cut if it was long? I've heard on here that it is good to have short hair, but I have a receding hair line and I look like a child if my hair is short.

Sorry for the long post.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ah yes happened to me before. I used to have long hair like yours...I cut it down to a good 1 inch. I have the front going back and the back going up...so its like spikey. It goes really well with the starting to receed hair line.

I prefer to use hair wax because I dont like the "wet" look that gel gives you...but thats up to you.
 

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u shouldnt spend ur time worrying about this small stuff. if ur DJ skills are up to par, whether ur hair is long or short shouldnt really matter. at worst, she'll think it doesn't look so good, doens't mean she doesn't like u

if she's only interested in ur hair, maybe she's the wrong girl to pursue
 

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I realise you got no choice but having the same style you got(sort of anyway , a little short at the sides - lost a bet..), rember that your losing a prop though. Around here I'm one of the few guys who have hair lower than the eyes, gets many people attention in good ways too .

But hey like theys aid: dont matter to a DJ much!
 

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Originally posted by dyce
u shouldnt spend ur time worrying about this small stuff. if ur DJ skills are up to par, whether ur hair is long or short shouldnt really matter. at worst, she'll think it doesn't look so good, doens't mean she doesn't like u

if she's only interested in ur hair, maybe she's the wrong girl to pursue
Thats true dude, when I cut it all the girls I knew were all dissapointed about my hair cut...but i still know that i can pull them anytime i want and they're still waiting for me to break up with my gf lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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