“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hair is going blonde >;/

Lost

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I go to the beach a LOT(cuz i surf). and usually for long periods of time(5 hours).........
anyways.. my hair is starting to go blonde.....
first it was the hairs on my arm.. ALL of them are blonde now.
Then the hair on my head... Ive been getting it cut every month or so.. but it still gets so much sun that a lot of it gets sorta blonde. some of it is completely blonde. I like my dark hair(brown) i dont want the blonde hair :/.
Even on my eyebrows their going blonde.. which is ****ed up cuz thats permanent isnt it?

What should i do? Ive heard theirs like sunblock for your hair lol?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You know, pal... 99% of people gots dark hair. You should be lucky to have blonde hair!

If you don´t want your hair to get blonder, wear a hat. I wear the traditional hat when I´m on the beach... not to prevent my hair becoming blonde, but to prevent headache. People say I look stupid with the hat but I don´t care :D

I know some girls use normal UV protection for their eyebrows with high UV-X to prevent from sunburn. Maybe help for you too?
 

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How can your hair be going blonde?

I have black hair and sure would like for it to be lighter.

Is it really just the sun or what is it cos I want to do it.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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im in the sun 6 hours everyday surfing.....

anyways i heard someone say to wear a hat... even tho i dont like em, but the only problem is, how the hell is it suupposed to stay on while im surfing???
 

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Hair goes blonde, not because of excessive sunlight but because of salt in the ocean.

We surf all the time and its common to see brown hair go blonde over a year or so.

Generally the color goes back to its origal state when surfing is stopped, again this takes time.

I hope you find this helpful.
 

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It's not permanent. It will go back to a darker color when you head back to school and cannot spend the same time in the water.

I have dark brown hair but a ton of it has become blond recently from surfing.
 

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Originally posted by Lost
im in the sun 6 hours everyday surfing.....

anyways i heard someone say to wear a hat... even tho i dont like em, but the only problem is, how the hell is it suupposed to stay on while im surfing???
Strap it to your head with duct tape. Right under the chin. Then it wont come off.

Alternatively, just enjoy the fact that you dont look like 99% of men out there. people actually PAY to have their hair have strips of blonde in it.

If you really have that much of a problem with it, a bandana would be better than a hat [for staying on purposes]. I used to do some surfing and wore it to avoid headaches, but it always stayed on. Just tie it tight.
 
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